Tuesday, April 6, 2010

Back at home...


It's been a while since I have written anything on here. I figured with all the news and big changes going on with Mark in Afghanistan, I didn't have much to offer. Basically, life at home can, in some ways, feel like "groundhog day"....Go to work, work out, go home, walk Bella and play with her (I can't say enough about how important that little girl is to me, especially going through this year!), do FRG stuff, talk to Mark, go to bed...Another day "checked off" and another day of this deployment in the history books. My friends have been so thoughtful about checking in with me and visiting at times on the weekends, and their company is ALWAYS appreciated. But, Mark has been particularly wonderful at managing to organize activities and surprises from a world away...which is completely typical of him, but I am still so grateful and amazed that he can find the time to do these special things for me despite being so busy with his responsibilities over there. The latest surprise was that he organized a CONCERT by Jon Troast which was held right in our own living room, in conjunction with Kristin's visit this past weekend. It was wonderful! Thank you, Mark, for doing what you can to help the time pass by...Having things to look forward to is so important and critical to getting through this deployment. And thanks to Kristin for coming to visit! I loved having you here. :-)

Tuesday, March 30, 2010

Me and my LTs




My company is blessed to have four Second Lieutenants, each responsible
for their own section and eager to accomplish the mission! But it's a
blessing and a curse, as it falls upon me to teach and mentor these new
officers the ways of the Army. So we meet once a week on my porch after
lunch to discuss a broad range of topics, everything from how to handle
problem Soldiers to the leadership theory. On Saturday I facilitated a
discussion on an article which garnered much disagreement. In essence,
is a leader most effective from his desk, as a behind-the-scenes
executive planning future operations or is it more advantageous to lead
from the front of the formation, earning respect by getting dirty with
your Soldiers and thus making better decisions? Of course there is no
right answer, and I think a good Commander can balance both aspects
depending on the situation. However, I had fun letting the Lieutenants
argue for about 15 minutes as they are still formulating their own
leadership style. One of my first acts as a Commander was to define my
leadership philosophy, which I explained to the top 12 key leaders in
the company and also posted in a memorandum. 
This is it:  

 1. Values: Trust is earned through competence. Respect is essential
between Soldiers and leaders. Integrity is the only non-negotiable. I
will set the moral and ethical standards within the company to exemplify
and reinforce the Army values. Be professional at all times and take
responsibility for your actions. Take pride in our company and your
profession. 

 2. Leadership: Leaders at the lowest levels are empowered and
encouraged to take the initiative to improve our unit. Each and every
Soldier should seek an informal mentor in addition to a counselor.
Communicate concerns positively through the chain of command and always
suggest a solution to the problem identified. Impart the commander's
intent to all Soldiers and provide the tools, time, and training to
accomplish the mission. 

 3. Training: Approach every event as a training mission, an opportunity
to excel and develop Soldier skills and leadership abilities. Training
must be task-focused yet always adaptable and as realistic as possible.
Regardless of when and where we deploy, the fundamentals of our
profession will provide the foundation from which we can accomplish any
mission. Be technically and tactically proficient in your MOS while
performing any additional duties to standard. Seek out ways to
contribute to the company with your skills and knowledge. 

 4. Soldiers and Families: Soldier care is the cornerstone of an
effective company. Quality of life is enhanced through adequate family
time and an involved FRG. Know your Soldiers and their families on a
personal level. Work when we are at work, and play in a responsible way
at home. 

5. Lastly, humor helps maintain a positive command climate and minimizes
a zero-defect mentality. We will face many trying times together and
must fight and win as a team. Admit your mistakes and allow others to
learn from them. We are the Headhunters!! 

 So, may be a bit simple but I think it does the trick. Soldiers only
really remember something if it's extremely short or is encapsulated in
an acronym. The purpose of this Officer Professional Development (OPD)
is to prepare these Lieutenants for their own Company Command in a few
years, after I'm long gone. What's funny is 3 out of the 4 of them are
actually older than I am and have prior military service as Enlisted
members. So, they probably have plenty to teach me too from that
perspective. Yet I am in charge, and they all recognize and respect
that. In future weeks I may profile a few of them with their permission,
as they really are remarkable people. For now, I'll leave you with the
assigned reading for our next OPD session. This is part of a
presentation on Counterinsurgency Operations. If only every Soldier in our Army could read and comprehend this chart the war would be done, right? I think the
President and Secretary of Defense themselves would be hard pressed to
explain this monstrosity.

Monday, March 22, 2010

Commander Zoolander?

Apparently my new company thinks I resemble Zoolander. This was hung on the wall as my command photo. Maybe it's their way of reminding me not to take myself too seriously. I'll take it as a sign they like me.


On a more serious note, one of the duties of a Commander is to handle emergency messages for my Soldiers. The American Red Cross voluntarily acts as the conduit for these messages, most often sent at the request of a doctor or family member to the service member. Once we receive a Red Cross message, we evaluate the severity of the situation and ask the Soldier to come to my office. I almost always ask the Chaplain to be present, in case there are emotional or spiritual issues the Soldier needs assistance with. As the Commander, it's my job to be the bearer of bad news. Yesterday a Sergeant's wife had a miscarriage so he is now headed home for two weeks to help her cope with the loss. The military does their best to get a Soldier home within 48-72 hours of the emergency, pretty amazing when you consider the isolation of this country. Yet, certain events do not qualify, such as the death of grandparents. In a way I wish I could put life on hold for the remainder of this year. Instead, I pray that God protects those we've left at home.

Tuesday, March 16, 2010

Change of Command

It's official. The Army has entrusted me with 244 Soldiers and Millions of Dollars of equipment. My signature now represents a decision and carries some weight. My first two days as a Commander were relatively uneventful. I'm still the same Mark and the company continues their day to day missions without a pause. In a word I am humbled to be a Commander. My Soldiers expect me to not only know their names but also their situations, to understand their jobs, and make decisions on their behalf. So enough of the highfalutin rambling. Here is a sort of picture narrative of the most important day in my Army career thus far:

First, the national Anthem is sung by one
of mybest Sergeants as the Narrator
(a senior WarrantOfficer)
salutes in the background.









Next, the chaplain prays for the change of command.








The First Sergeant puts the formation at 'parade rest', flanked by the guidon bearer.




The Battalion Commander passes me the guidon, an Army tradition dating back to Friedrich von Steuben, and says "Mark, you have the controls now" to which I respond with an Army "Hooah". Profound, I know.

The Battalion Commander, Outgoing Commander, and myself move forward to make our speeches.

After my 15-second speech (the new Commander is expected to be short-winded) I Command from the front of the formation for the first time to lead the company in our unit song and the Army song. After this I salute my boss to conclude the Ceremony, followed by refreshments and congratulations.


After the ceremony, my 'Command Team' poses for a quick photo. These are the Soldiers I will work with the most on a daily basis as they work right outside my office in the administration.

Saturday, March 13, 2010

Farewell

Yesterday I said goodbye to my old company, even though I will still see most every day and work about 200 feet away. I really had grown close to many of the other officers, NCO's, and Soldiers. One of those was my former boss, Major Eyster. He really is a remarkable man with many hidden talents and abilities. A third-generation Army officer and OH-58 Kiowa pilot, Major Eyster worked so hard to deploy our Brigade that he literally gave himself a minor heart attack and was hospitalized for a few days. His ability to synchronize information and motivate disparate parties was incredible. As the only Aviators in our section, we shared a common understanding and even played on the same soccer team here.

Part of his remarkable story is detailed in this article: http://www.boston.com/news/nation/articles/2008/05/25/six_decades_and_half_a_world_away/ Major Eyster worked as the officer in charge of a JPAC team (Joint POW-MIA Accounting Command) which was responsible for recovery of missing & fallen Soldiers in Southeast Asia. The same author is actually working on a full-length book about Major Eyster's life story, focusing on the correlation between this mission and his life story, as his grandfather was killed in Vietnam as a Colonel. This type of mission is the side of the military that no one sees yet I think we can all appreciate.



As a farewell gift Major Eyster gave me the mark of a Commander: the desk Name plaque! I am thankful for knowing and learning from such a fine officer and for his friendship. Please take a minute to read his story.

Wednesday, March 10, 2010

my new pad

One of the benefits of being the 'boss' is living closer to my new office. Actually, my new room is literally two feet away from my office which is connected to the company operations cell (manned 24 hrs a day). What this means is I am almost always at work, even when I am away, so that they can find me in an emergency. Personally I'm a hard sleeper so this setup doesn't bother me too much, but my First Sergeant has complained to the Chaplain that it is taking a toll on her mental health. We don't have an 'escape' from work and the worries that go with being in charge. There are no real weekends here; at most I take a few hours away from work on Sundays for church and to relax. Otherwise, we are on the hook for 12+ hours a day for the foreseeable future.

The new change of command date is finally set for this Sunday, as my counterpart was able to find all but $80,000 worth of property. He will most likely pay one month's salary as a penalty, which I think is more than fair in this situation. During the last week two of the female Soldiers in my company turned up pregnant, which means they are sent home immediately. Thus, the unit suffers and is short in those positions (further reinforcing Jocelyn's belief that woman do not belong in the military). Last night I had the task of searching all rooms for drugs/alcohol and found a Soldier with a small supply of steroids. These types of situations will probably be common in command; my job will be to determine disposition and a fair means of disipline. The fun officially begins in four days!

Friday, March 5, 2010

Grandpap Dino

Jocelyn's grandfather passed away unexpectedly last week, so she and Bella headed to Indiana, Pennsylvania to celebrate his life and help pack his home up. So this has been a somewhat somber week for her and the family, especially Jocelyn's mother who was so close to him. Dino lived a full and interesting life and always had stories. After 3 years in the Coast Guard he came back home as a coal miner. Not satisfied with that quality of life, Dino opened his own bar in Indiana, PA which he ran until their retirement. Jocelyn's grandmother, Della, had passed away over 10 years ago and I'm sure life wasn't the same without her. In fact, Jocelyn tells me that he hasn't even used the oven since...now that's a bachelor! From what I hear he was one of the most popular guys in town, right after the actor Jimmy Stewart, and I can certainly see why. Everyone loved Dino.

Personally he was quite the character, supposedly wearing a wig at the flea market to get his customers to laugh! I don't think I ever saw him mad and he always put others first. Despite his dislike of flying, he went all the way to Fargo for the wedding, saying he ''wouldn't miss it for the world". I spent Christmas with him and the family two years ago and replaced a light switch, which he for some reason thought was incredible and always told me how much he appreciated that, even a year later.

I'll never forget Dino Scardigli, even though I only spent what amounts to a few weeks getting to know him. I am thankful for a life well lived and for him passing without too much pain, trusting that he's still smiling now and as proud as ever of his family and granddaughter.